- Do you ever get a gut feeling about someone the instant you meet them?
- When that happens, you know it’s not because of what they said or did.
- It’s some kind of signal you read in their facial expression, vocal tone, or
- body language.
- Surprisingly, researchers have found that we are quite accurate with these
- instantaneous assessments about other people.
- The simple fact is, you know things about a person the second you meet them.
- And you react to these unspoken signals automatically.
- If you’re good at reading people, you may not find it surprising to learn that men and
- women notice different kinds of signals when interacting with a potential mate.
- To skip ahead to the video that explains the unusual pattern of signals men look for
- in a romantic relationship, just follow this link.
- It explains the hidden signal that either repels a man or makes him feel irresistibly attracted
- to you.
- Otherwise, keep reading to learn about a particular signal you’re broadcasting to men all
- the time (whether you know it or not).
- It’s probably not what you would expect.
- You see, there’s a specific kind of body language men simply can’t ignore.
- It’s a signal that can spark romantic feelings. Or it can repel him, depending on what he’s
- reading from your nonverbal cues.
- Would you like to know what it is?
- Men Are Extremely Sensitive to Something in Your Body Language That You Would
- Never Expect.
- Women often ask me for the words to make a man want you. But the secret to make
- someone fall in love with you goes a bit deeper.
- In fact, your ability to broadcast the right non-verbal message makes all the difference
- when it comes to attracting the kind of man you want.
- If you’ve been attracting attention from guys who fail to connect with you on a deep,
- emotional level, I may be able to show you why.
- You’re probably sending out just one very confusing signal...without even realizing it.
- With the wrong signal, you end up with this:
- · Attention from the wrong kind of guys. The ones you aren’t interested in.
- · Initial attraction that later fades with the one guy you really wanted to attract.
- · A slow and painful death for the attraction and passion in your existing relationship.
- But with a slight adjustment, you could be sending the right signal all the time.
- And you’d end up getting results more like this:
- · Passion that intensifies the longer you’re together
- · A guy who clearly feels protective of you
- · A deep feeling of private exclusivity as he lets you into his inner world
- The difference can be dramatic. And it all comes down to this one signal I’m about to
- show you.
- In order to explain this signal, think of yourself as a radio tower.
- You are constantly broadcasting a message to the men in your life. And there’s
- one “channel” he can’t tune out.
- That’s because men have emotional “antennas” designed specifically to detect this one
- kind of signal.
- Ready to find out which signal I’m talking about? Ok, here it is. He reads your nonverbal
- cues to find out where you “rank him” compared with other men.
- He reads your body language to see how he measures up in your eyes. Does she respect
- me? Or am I just her play thing?
- Does she look up to me in some ways? Does she value me compared to other men?
- Or is she just settling?
- Why are men so sensitive to this one signal?
- Because, oddly enough, this signal tells him how you compare him to other men.
- So it influences how he feels about himself whenever he’s around you.
- And it’s amazing how much this one signal affects
- his emotions.
- You see, in relationships, people don’t tell us what we really want to know.
- We have to listen to what’s written between the lines.
- This kind of “listening” determines how we feel about each person we meet.
- And when it comes to romantic relationships, it tells us far more than spoken words.
- Now tell me this. Which man would you rather commit to for life?
- A man who compliments your beauty but seems to have difficulty keeping his eyes off
- other women? Or a man who is reserved with his compliments, but seems to have
- eyes only for you?
- The truth is, no one wants to end up with someone who is just settling. Instead, you want
- to feel desired.
- Men are no different. But what makes men feel desired is very different from what makes
- women feel desired.
- For example, research shows men often confuse love and respect. A man does not want
- to be loved by a romantic partner unless she also holds him in high regard compared with
- other men.
- Otherwise, it just feels like motherly love. That’s not what he wants. It’s not how he wants
- to perceive himself in his primary relationship.
- And that’s why...
- Women often send mixed signals to the guy they’re interested in without even
- knowing it.
- It happens accidentally. And I have to tell you, it’s not your fault.
- Society has changed too fast for men and women to adapt to the rapid changes.
- We are left scrambling.
- In nearly every culture there used to be a clear set of expectations. Those expectations
- guided men and women through the process of connecting with a lifelong partner.
- Demonstrations of mutual admiration were built into the process of courtship.
- But those clear expectations are a thing of the past. These days, each couple has to invent
- their own path, dancing around unspoken expectations and feelings of uncertainty.
- And there’s something that often gets lost in our modern version of courtship.
- I’m talking about the ancient art of communicating desire through the language of
- admiration. It’s where the phrase, “You have an admirer” came from.
- He doesn’t want you to settle.
- He wants to feel like you see him as the ultimate catch.
- Otherwise, it deflates his ego. And with it, his passion for the relationship deflates too.
- He just can’t picture himself with a woman who looks up to other men more than she
- looks up to him.
- But this is where things get confusing.
- Many women want to make their man feel loved.
- But a woman’s idea of loving communication is very different than a man’s.
- How do you communicate your true feelings to a man? And why are men so sensitive to
- tiny signals about where you rank him compared with other men?
- To dive a little deeper into that particular question, I put together a
- video presentation on the topic.
- It explains the most powerful signals you can use to grab a man’s attention.
- After watching this video, many women are surprised to learn how much control
- they have over a man’s self-esteem.
- And even more surprised by how easy it is to make someone cherish you and want
- to invest in the relationship.
- Many of us have a tendency to buy gifts of the sort we would like to receive ourselves.
- It can be like that with love. We try to love our partner the way we want to be loved.
- So you make him feel special. Yet he seems unaffected by that. You speak your own
- native love language to him. Apparently, he speaks another.
- But I’m here to tell you about one incredible, universal method you can use to grab
- his attention by showing that you get what he craves most.
- Click here now to discover an unfair advantage with men. Help him to finally see you
- as the one.
- References:
- Harry's Masculinity Report 2018 https://s3.amazonaws.com/harrys-cdnx-prod/manual/Harry%27s+Masculinity+Report%2C+USA+2018.pdf - Men are happiest when a part of something where they feel needed and valued.
- Anderson, Cameron & Hildreth, John & Howland, Laura. (2015). Is the Desire for Status a Fundamental Human Motive? A Review of the Empirical Literature. Psychological bulletin. 141. 10.1037/a0038781. - Male need for respect.
- Gender Differences in Implicit Self-Esteem Following a Romantic Partner's Success or Failure," Kate A. Ratliff, PhD, University of Florida, and Shigehiro Oishi, PhD, University of Virginia; Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, online Aug. 5, 2013. - Men have lower self-esteem when their partner succeeds and they fail (i.e. they don't feel needed/irreplaceable).
- Canevello A, Crocker J. Creating good relationships: Responsiveness, relationship quality, and interpersonal goals. J Pers Soc Psychol. 2010;99(1):78-106. doi:10.1037/a0018186 - Showing him you believe in him and he's the one for the job.
- Reis HT, Lemay Jr EP, Finkenauer C. Toward understanding understanding: The importance of feeling understood in relationships. Social and Personality Psychology Compass. 2017:11(3):e12308. doi:10.1111/spc3.12308 - You value his point of view and abilities.
- Do you ever get a gut feeling about someone the instant you meet them?
- When that happens, you know it’s not because of what they said or did.
- It’s some kind of signal you read in their facial expression, vocal tone, or
- body language.
- Surprisingly, researchers have found that we are quite accurate with these
- instantaneous assessments about other people.
- The simple fact is, you know things about a person the second you meet them.
- And you react to these unspoken signals automatically.
- If you’re good at reading people, you may not find it surprising to learn that men and
- women notice different kinds of signals when interacting with a potential mate.
- To skip ahead to the video that explains the unusual pattern of signals men look for
- in a romantic relationship, just follow this link.
- It explains the hidden signal that either repels a man or makes him feel irresistibly attracted
- to you.
- Otherwise, keep reading to learn about a particular signal you’re broadcasting to men all
- the time (whether you know it or not).
- It’s probably not what you would expect.
- You see, there’s a specific kind of body language men simply can’t ignore.
- It’s a signal that can spark romantic feelings. Or it can repel him, depending on what he’s
- reading from your nonverbal cues.
- Would you like to know what it is?
- Men Are Extremely Sensitive to Something in Your Body Language That You Would
- Never Expect.
- Women often ask me for the words to make a man want you. But the secret to make
- someone fall in love with you goes a bit deeper.
- In fact, your ability to broadcast the right non-verbal message makes all the difference
- when it comes to attracting the kind of man you want.
- If you’ve been attracting attention from guys who fail to connect with you on a deep,
- emotional level, I may be able to show you why.
- You’re probably sending out just one very confusing signal...without even realizing it.
- With the wrong signal, you end up with this:
- · Attention from the wrong kind of guys. The ones you aren’t interested in.
- · Initial attraction that later fades with the one guy you really wanted to attract.
- · A slow and painful death for the attraction and passion in your existing relationship.
- But with a slight adjustment, you could be sending the right signal all the time.
- And you’d end up getting results more like this:
- · Passion that intensifies the longer you’re together
- · A guy who clearly feels protective of you
- · A deep feeling of private exclusivity as he lets you into his inner world
- The difference can be dramatic. And it all comes down to this one signal I’m about to
- show you.
- In order to explain this signal, think of yourself as a radio tower.
- You are constantly broadcasting a message to the men in your life. And there’s
- one “channel” he can’t tune out.
- That’s because men have emotional “antennas” designed specifically to detect this one
- kind of signal.
- Ready to find out which signal I’m talking about? Ok, here it is. He reads your nonverbal
- cues to find out where you “rank him” compared with other men.
- He reads your body language to see how he measures up in your eyes. Does she respect
- me? Or am I just her play thing?
- Does she look up to me in some ways? Does she value me compared to other men?
- Or is she just settling?
- Why are men so sensitive to this one signal?
- Because, oddly enough, this signal tells him how you compare him to other men.
- So it influences how he feels about himself whenever he’s around you.
- And it’s amazing how much this one signal affects
- his emotions.
- You see, in relationships, people don’t tell us what we really want to know.
- We have to listen to what’s written between the lines.
- This kind of “listening” determines how we feel about each person we meet.
- And when it comes to romantic relationships, it tells us far more than spoken words.
- Now tell me this. Which man would you rather commit to for life?
- A man who compliments your beauty but seems to have difficulty keeping his eyes off
- other women? Or a man who is reserved with his compliments, but seems to have
- eyes only for you?
- The truth is, no one wants to end up with someone who is just settling. Instead, you want
- to feel desired.
- Men are no different. But what makes men feel desired is very different from what makes
- women feel desired.
- For example, research shows men often confuse love and respect. A man does not want
- to be loved by a romantic partner unless she also holds him in high regard compared with
- other men.
- Otherwise, it just feels like motherly love. That’s not what he wants. It’s not how he wants
- to perceive himself in his primary relationship.
- And that’s why...
- Women often send mixed signals to the guy they’re interested in without even
- knowing it.
- It happens accidentally. And I have to tell you, it’s not your fault.
- Society has changed too fast for men and women to adapt to the rapid changes.
- We are left scrambling.
- In nearly every culture there used to be a clear set of expectations. Those expectations
- guided men and women through the process of connecting with a lifelong partner.
- Demonstrations of mutual admiration were built into the process of courtship.
- But those clear expectations are a thing of the past. These days, each couple has to invent
- their own path, dancing around unspoken expectations and feelings of uncertainty.
- And there’s something that often gets lost in our modern version of courtship.
- I’m talking about the ancient art of communicating desire through the language of
- admiration. It’s where the phrase, “You have an admirer” came from.
- He doesn’t want you to settle.
- He wants to feel like you see him as the ultimate catch.
- Otherwise, it deflates his ego. And with it, his passion for the relationship deflates too.
- He just can’t picture himself with a woman who looks up to other men more than she
- looks up to him.
- But this is where things get confusing.
- Many women want to make their man feel loved.
- But a woman’s idea of loving communication is very different than a man’s.
- How do you communicate your true feelings to a man? And why are men so sensitive to
- tiny signals about where you rank him compared with other men?
- To dive a little deeper into that particular question, I put together a
- video presentation on the topic.
- It explains the most powerful signals you can use to grab a man’s attention.
- After watching this video, many women are surprised to learn how much control
- they have over a man’s self-esteem.
- And even more surprised by how easy it is to make someone cherish you and want
- to invest in the relationship.
- Many of us have a tendency to buy gifts of the sort we would like to receive ourselves.
- It can be like that with love. We try to love our partner the way we want to be loved.
- So you make him feel special. Yet he seems unaffected by that. You speak your own
- native love language to him. Apparently, he speaks another.
- But I’m here to tell you about one incredible, universal method you can use to grab
- his attention by showing that you get what he craves most.
- Click here now to discover an unfair advantage with men. Help him to finally see you
- as the one.
- References:
- Harry's Masculinity Report 2018 https://s3.amazonaws.com/harrys-cdnx-prod/manual/Harry%27s+Masculinity+Report%2C+USA+2018.pdf - Men are happiest when a part of something where they feel needed and valued.
- Anderson, Cameron & Hildreth, John & Howland, Laura. (2015). Is the Desire for Status a Fundamental Human Motive? A Review of the Empirical Literature. Psychological bulletin. 141. 10.1037/a0038781. - Male need for respect.
- Gender Differences in Implicit Self-Esteem Following a Romantic Partner's Success or Failure," Kate A. Ratliff, PhD, University of Florida, and Shigehiro Oishi, PhD, University of Virginia; Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, online Aug. 5, 2013. - Men have lower self-esteem when their partner succeeds and they fail (i.e. they don't feel needed/irreplaceable).
- Canevello A, Crocker J. Creating good relationships: Responsiveness, relationship quality, and interpersonal goals. J Pers Soc Psychol. 2010;99(1):78-106. doi:10.1037/a0018186 - Showing him you believe in him and he's the one for the job.
- Reis HT, Lemay Jr EP, Finkenauer C. Toward understanding understanding: The importance of feeling understood in relationships. Social and Personality Psychology Compass. 2017:11(3):e12308. doi:10.1111/spc3.12308 - You value his point of view and abilities.
